look in the mirror of your heart,,,

is there anyone among us who has not made any mistakes?we are all human beings,imperfect creatures.Before looking at others,we should cleanse ourselves.mistakes made eventhough it may have caused pain and sorrow,cannot be undone.let bygone be bygone.even if i were to continue to hold the grudges and resentment,it will not be undone.therefore,total acceptance is the only chance for me to move from the past,to a better,brighter future.

forgiving is not the same as forgetting or condoning what has hapenned.yea,i admit,i will never forget the things that leave scars.deep inside my heart,i cried remembering all those sadness.but when i sit back,and think deeply,for how long i must think badly about things that i can't never changed?yea,the fact remains that someone has done something wrong,but forgiveness can lessen its grip on me and help myself to focus on others.

forgiving has little or nothing to do with another person because forgiveness is an internal matter.yea,not everyone can give forgiveness easily after many tears falls for that incindent.forgiving someone else is to agree within yourself to overlook the wrong they have committed against you and to move on with your life.

this is the answer from me..